Feeling the Wobble: Rising Strong in a Shifting World

Feeling the Wobble: Rising Strong in a Shifting World

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There’s a wobble in the air—a persistent, disorienting undercurrent of instability that none of us can escape. Whether it’s the weight of global crises, collective trauma, or the unrelenting pace of modern life, we are all feeling it.

This wobble is not just “out there.” It’s in our bodies, our relationships, and our work. It’s in the frayed edges of conversations, the silent tension in crowded spaces, and the way we react more than we respond. Even if we try to ignore it, the instability touches every part of our lives. And hiding from it is not an option. To retreat into denial would be catastrophic—not only for ourselves and our loved ones but also for the profound work we’re here to do.

Because if you’re feeling this wobble, it’s likely that you are someone who seeks Significance—to lead a life that matters, that aligns with your values, and that bends the moral arc of the universe toward good.

The Wobble Within: My Personal Story

The other day, I found myself deeply immersed in my own inner work, feeling vulnerable and exposed—a touch of instability coursing through me. I had made an agreement with myself to explore this terrain, as I often do when I sense the need for a deeper excavation of my heart and soul. But this time, the journey feels different.

I’ve invited a new guide to walk alongside me, someone with a fresh lens and tools I hadn’t used before. Together, we’re approaching my inner world through a systems perspective, and I feel the wobble.

Here’s the thing: I chose it.
I knew this instability was coming. In fact, I was wobbling even before this expedition began—I just didn’t have the words for it yet. It was a silent kind of suffering, and it was wearing me down.

We all do this dance. Every single client I’m working with right now is asking the same questions:

  • Is this it?
  • I’ve lost myself. How do I find my way back?
  • What do I do now?
  • Who the fuck am I?

These aren’t just questions of identity or direction; they’re questions of Significance. They come from the deep, human desire to live a life of purpose and impact—to move beyond success into meaning.

The Call to Rise

This is why we must rise now. For the sake of our hearts and souls, for the people we love, and for the work we’re here to do, we must shore up our foundations and go beyond what we’ve ever done before.

The wobble is the call to action. It is not asking us to retreat but to step into radical self-responsibility and self-leadership. This is the heart of living a significant life.

We must:

  • Learn to ground ourselves when the world feels unsteady.
  • Train our nervous systems to move out of fight, flight, or freeze and into calm, sacred frequencies of love, exploration, creativity, innovation, and clear action.
  • Practice the daily discipline of returning to center when we’re pulled off course.

This is not a time for shortcuts or surface-level fixes. The depth of our personal work will determine how steady we can stand in an unsteady world. And that steadiness will allow us to create the kind of impact we long for—a lasting legacy of significance.

From Reactivity to Resilience

As I continue this leg of my journey, I’m reminded that the wobble isn’t something to fear—it’s something to honor. It is the space where transformation begins.

The same is true for you. Every wobble, every moment of rawness, is an invitation to build something stronger within yourself. To find a foundation that isn’t dependent on the world around you staying stable, because it won’t.

This is what it means to move from reactivity to resilience. And resilience isn’t just about surviving—it’s about thriving. It’s about leading a life of significance, where your inner strength fuels your outer impact.

Ask yourself:

  • How can I show up more rooted, more present?
  • What practices will help me move from reactivity and dysregulation to resourcefulness?
  • How can I create a life that feels steady, aligned, and meaningful, even when the world doesn’t?

Answering the Call

This is a time of profound challenge, but also profound opportunity. The wobble is asking us to step up in ways we never have before—to meet the instability with clarity, care, and courage.

By doing your inner work, by rising to the call of radical self-responsibility, you not only transform yourself but also become a beacon of stability for others. For your children. For your colleagues. For your communities. For our world.

And this is the true essence of significance: living a life that not only fulfills you but also leaves a mark on the world.

This is the time, my loves. The time to rise, to go deeper, to build stronger foundations than we’ve ever known. The world may feel wobbly, but we don’t have to. Let’s do this work—together.

 

Let’s Steady the Wobble—Together

If you’re feeling the wobble and know it’s time to rise into a life of true significance, let’s have a conversation. This is the work I do in my high-touch private coaching—guiding visionaries, leaders, and changemakers to ground themselves, build resilience, and lead from a place of clarity and strength.

If you’re ready to meet this moment with courage and create a life that feels aligned, steady, and impactful, let’s explore what that could look like for you.

Click here to schedule a conversation with me.

Your next step begins now.

Jen Karofsky | Thought Partner & Coach for Visionary Leaders & Significance Seekers

 Jen Karofsky collaborates with leaders who are ready to disrupt the status quo and craft a life of legacy, deep connection, and purposeful impact. Through intentional coaching and bold thought partnership, Jen Karofsky helps you align your work, your values, and your vision to create transformational change in your world.

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