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The Gift of Nothingness
In the dance of leadership, the moments of stillness can feel like a void, but what if we reimagined this nothingness as fertile ground for renewal rather than a harbinger of failure? It’s in these quiet interludes that we can gather our thoughts and rediscover our purpose, allowing the pressures of constant output to dissolve. Rather than seeing the blank page as a threat, let it be a canvas for creativity, an invitation to reflect deeply and cultivate ideas that resonate with our truest selves. Embracing these pauses nurtures resilience, transforming what once felt like an absence into a powerful opportunity for insight and growth, reminding us that even in silence, we are preparing for the next great leap forward.
Why Successful Leaders Are Secretly Dying Inside (And How to Wake Up)
Aliveness is what wakes us up from autopilot.
You remember when the work felt electric. When every project sparked something new. That aliveness brought the recognition, the awards, the kind of success most people dream about.
But then, slowly, what once felt alive became… routine. The systems that served you started running you. Autopilot isn’t the enemy—there’s a time and place to just do. But when autopilot becomes the only mode, success turns beige.
The Burden and the Gift of Being Skilled
When Being Good at Something Becomes a Role You Didn’t Mean to Keep
There’s a particular weight that comes with being highly skilled. Not just capable—but trusted, leaned on, counted on. You do something well—maybe better than anyone else in the room—and over time, it becomes expected. Natural. Automatic. You show up, and without even offering, you’re tapped.
When the Metrics Don’t Fit
This post is an excerpt from The Significance Project. If this resonates with you, I’d love for you to be part of the community.. You can sign up here.Why ambitious visionary leaders need a different kind of measurement at this stage of growth.There’s a rhythm many...
A Reflection on the Tension Between Greatness and Safety
“A new world calls across the sky. A new world whispers in the shadows. Time to fly.” —from Songs for a New World
The Collaboration
This post is an excerpt from The Significance Project. If this resonates with you, I’d love for you to be part of the community.. You can sign up here.When Success and Significance build something real—together. Part 5: There comes a point in a high-achieving life...
Significance Doesn’t Perform, It Provides
This post is an excerpt from The Significance Project. If this resonates with you, I’d love for you to be part of the community.. You can sign up here.A new kind of presence for a new kind of chapter.Part 4: Let’s be honest: Success was always easier to measure. It...
When Success and Significance Become Co-Creators
So far, we’ve named the two siblings: Success—the magnetic, outcome-driven, high-achieving force who built the world you live in.
And Significance—the quieter, inward-facing part of you who’s now asking deeper questions about meaning, alignment, and legacy.
When Success Gets Bored
This post is an excerpt from The Significance Project. If this resonates with you, I’d love for you to be part of the community.. You can sign up here.The touch point between what used to matter and what matters now.Part 2:Let me start with a quick disclaimer: I’m...
The Siblings at the Center of a Life Well Lived
I’m sharing a five-part series exploring what happens when success stops feeling like enough, and something deeper begins to call. If you’re someone who’s achieved a lot—and yet you’re starting to ask what now? or what for?—this is for you. Each week, we’ll explore a different facet of the evolving relationship between Success and Significance—how they show up, how they push against each other, and how they might begin to work together.
At the end of each note, I’ll offer a small reflection or prompt—nothing formal, just something to think about as you consider your own relationship to both.
The Signals of Significance
Feeling the quiet pull away from hustle and toward something more meaningful? The Signals of Significance explores the moment when success no longer satisfies and a deeper, more aligned path begins to emerge. Discover 10 signs you’re ready to shift from achievement to significance—and what to do when you’re standing at that edge. This is for leaders, creatives, and change-makers ready to live and lead with purpose.
No Shortcuts to Significance: Why the Storm is part of the work
Discover why there are no shortcuts to significance and how facing the storm within leads to a deeper, more meaningful kind of leadership and life.
