Beyond Either/Or: How Holding Tension Creates Transformation

Beyond Either/Or: How Holding Tension Creates Transformation

by | Oct 22, 2025 | Identity Shifts, Innovation, Inspiration

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We’ve been trained to choose fast. Left or right. Scale or slow down. Build or breathe.

The tyranny of either/or follows us everywhere. Through career pivots, relationship crossroads, and those 2 a.m. moments when we wonder if the life we’re living is still the one we meant to live.

But what if the most meaningful breakthroughs don’t come from choosing sides at all?

 

The paradox that transforms

The psychologist Carl Jung called this tension the transcendent function.

He believed real growth doesn’t come from resolving conflict but from holding it long enough for a new possibility to appear.

When you can stay with the discomfort of two truths that seem to fight each other, something unexpected starts to form. Not a middle ground. A new ground.

It’s not indecision. It’s not paralysis.

It’s the courage to stand in the heat of contradiction long enough for something honest to be born.

When you stop rushing to eliminate one side, you make space for what can’t exist inside a binary. The tension itself becomes the transformation.

 

The collapse into certainty

Our minds crave closure.

When faced with opposite desires, like the safety of a steady path versus the aliveness of risk, we feel the itch to decide.

That collapse into certainty can cost us everything.

Every time we pick a side just to quiet the noise, we train ourselves to distrust complexity. And complexity is where real strategy lives. Where innovation happens. Where you become the kind of leader who sees what others miss.

We take the practical path and bury the longing. Or we chase the dream and ignore the signals of significance. The ones that tell us when something’s off, even if the numbers look right.. Either way, we flatten out a part of ourselves.

A life of significance asks for something harder. The willingness to live beyond either/or.

 

The practice of holding tension

This isn’t waiting around for clarity. It’s a practice, a way of staying present when your instinct is to tidy things up.

Stay curious

Don’t rush to solve the tension. Get interested in it. What’s each side trying to protect? What’s each one afraid of losing? Curiosity keeps the process alive long enough for change to happen.

Question everything

Ask yourself: Is this really a binary? What assumptions am I making? The moment you question the premise, the walls start to move.

Innovate through discomfort

You don’t have to invent something new “out there.” Shift how you relate to what’s already clashing inside you. Can you hold “I need stability” and “I crave freedom” as equally true? That inner innovation is where real breakthroughs start.

Reflect without collapsing

Write about both truths. Walk while holding them in your mind. Talk to someone who won’t rush you to pick a lane. Reflection stretches the process instead of cutting it short.

Act from the overlap

Holding tension isn’t all patience. It’s also movement. Act when something genuinely new starts to show up. You’ll know it because it doesn’t feel like picking sides. It feels like becoming more yourself.

Maybe you take a meeting that doesn’t fit either plan. Or you build something that serves both the impact you want and the pace you need. Or you say no to something “strategic” because it violates what you now know is true.

Stay kind to yourself

Maybe the hardest part. Loving yourself enough to stay in the not knowing. To believe you can hold both truths without breaking. Without that kindness, we trade our complexity for the comfort of certainty.

 

What transformation actually looks like

When you learn to hold opposites, life gets bigger.

You realize you can be ambitious and grounded. Analytical and intuitive. Building and well.The old binaries dissolve, revealing possibilities you couldn’t see while you were busy trying to pick.

The leader who burns it all down to “find meaning” might be moving too fast. The one who stays miserable because it’s “responsible” is doing the same. But the leader who can hold both the drive for impact and the hunger for depth without flinching discovers something else entirely.

A new way to lead. A new definition of “success”. Maybe even a new self.

Holding tension doesn’t promise comfort. It promises growth.

 

An invitation

Next time you hit an impossible choice, don’t decide. Not yet.

Sit with both options like two people you love, each speaking a truth that matters. Feel what happens in your body. Notice your mind’s panic to make it neat.

Then wait.

Not passively. Attentively. Question. Reflect. Experiment. Take small actions that honor both truths. Hold yourself gently when it gets uncomfortable.

Because in that space between, something new is already forming.

Maybe transformation isn’t about resolution at all. Maybe it’s about learning to hold what’s real until what’s next reveals itself.

Jung saw this ability to hold paradox as the heart of individuation—the process of becoming fully yourself.

In our time, it may also be the heart of meaningful leadership.

The world doesn’t need more people picking sides. It needs people willing to live beyond either/or.

Love + The In-Between,

Jen

Jen Karofsky | Thought Partner & Coach for Visionary Leaders & Significance Seekers

 Jen Karofsky collaborates with leaders who are ready to disrupt the status quo and craft a life of legacy, deep connection, and purposeful impact. Through intentional coaching and bold thought partnership, Jen helps you align your work, your values, and your vision to create transformational change in your world.

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When Focus Becomes a Standard: The Hidden Key to Living with Intention

When Focus Becomes a Standard: The Hidden Key to Living with Intention

by | Oct 13, 2025 | Identity Shifts, Inspiration, Practice Leadership

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Focus Isn’t About Scheduling

Most people believe focus is a matter of better time management, sharper lists, or smarter apps. But here’s the truth: focus isn’t a scheduling problem—it’s a standards problem.

Distraction doesn’t happen because your calendar isn’t optimized. It happens because you haven’t set clear internal agreements about who you are and what deserves your best attention.

When we drift from focus, it isn’t just about missing deadlines or slipping into procrastination. It’s about living out of alignment with the person we want to become.

The Myth of Productivity Hacks

Why Apps and Lists Don’t Fix Distraction

To-do lists and productivity apps can feel empowering, but they only shuffle priorities. They don’t address the deeper issue—whether your attention is aligned with your values. Lists can help you remember tasks, but they don’t change the standards you live by daily.

Motion vs. Meaning: The Trap of Busyness

You can be busy all day and still accomplish nothing of significance. Busyness gives the illusion of progress, but without standards, your energy gets consumed by urgencies instead of meaningful work. This is why so many people look back after another year and realize they’re in the same place.

 

Focus as a Standards Problem

How Standards Define Who We Become

Standards are the invisible agreements you hold with yourself. They decide where your attention goes when distractions compete for it. High standards create a life anchored in purpose; low standards leave you at the mercy of every notification and demand.

The Gap Between Who We Say We Are and Who We Show Up As

The tension many of us feel isn’t because we lack time—it’s because there’s a gap between who we say we want to be and how we consistently show up. That gap erodes confidence and integrity, making it harder to sustain focus.

 

The Cost of Scattered Attention

Drained Energy and Chronic Busyness

When your focus is scattered, your nervous system never rests. You constantly switch between tasks, leaving you mentally drained even when you’ve achieved little. This is why you can sleep eight hours and still feel tired—your brain is running on fumes.

The Impact on Relationships and Commitments

Distraction doesn’t only cost you productivity—it costs you presence. Sacred relationships begin to feel transactional when you’re half-there. Commitments weaken when you can’t sustain attention on what matters most.

How “Too Busy” Excuses Shape Your Life

The excuse “I’m too busy” is often a mask for misaligned focus. Year after year, the same story repeats: urgent tasks consume time, while meaningful goals and relationships get neglected.

 

Building Standards Through Attention

Why One Clear Agreement Matters More Than Ten Plans

The shift begins with simplicity. You don’t need a 10-step productivity plan—you need one clear agreement with yourself about what deserves your best attention. That single decision creates clarity and energy for everything else.

The Power of Visual Reminders in Daily Life

Symbols, images, or phrases serve as anchors for your standards. A photo on your desk, a mantra on your wall, or even a word on your lock screen can remind you of your commitment. Visual reminders keep standards alive when noise gets loud.

Alignment Through Small Non-Negotiable Acts

Standards aren’t built overnight. They’re created through consistent micro-decisions—the thousand small acts of choosing presence over distraction.

 

Two Paths: Standards vs. Circumstances

The People Who Choose Standards

These are the individuals who decide, in advance, what matters most. They honor commitments, nurture relationships, and give their best energy to meaningful work. Their lives compound into significance.

The People Who React to Noise

Others let circumstances dictate their attention. They chase what’s loudest, newest, or most urgent, confusing motion with meaning. Over time, this leads to a scattered life with no true direction.

 

Shaping the Person You’re Becoming

What You Consistently Give Attention To Becomes Your Identity

The person you’re becoming isn’t built on what you say matters—it’s built on what consistently receives your attention. Day by day, your focus compounds into your character.

Building Character in Daily Micro-Decisions

Your future self is shaped in small choices: Do you give attention to your phone or your partner at dinner? Do you invest in deep work or chase inbox zero? Character is built in these micro-decisions.

 

The Shift Toward Significance

Choosing Depth Over Distraction

Significance doesn’t come from juggling more. It comes from bringing depth of presence to fewer, more meaningful things.

Living Beyond Surface-Level Productivity

Surface-level productivity feels good in the short term but leaves you empty. True fulfillment comes from aligning standards with what matters most—relationships, meaningful work, and personal growth.

 

Practical Ways to Establish Personal Standards

Identifying What Deserves Your Best Attention

Ask yourself: What truly deserves my sharpest thinking, my fullest presence, my highest energy? That’s where your standards begin.

Strengthening Commitments to Relationships and Work

Make clear agreements about non-negotiables—whether it’s protecting family dinners, giving your best hours to deep work, or showing up fully for your commitments.

Creating Standards That Withstand Noise and Urgency

Standards protect you from distractions. When the noise gets loud, your internal agreements remind you: This is what I’ve chosen. This is who I am.

 

FAQs on Focus and Standards

1. Why isn’t focus just about willpower?

Because willpower is temporary. Standards provide long-term structure, so you don’t rely on fleeting motivation.

2. How do standards affect productivity?

Standards align your attention with meaningful work, making productivity purposeful instead of scattered.

3. Can one decision really change long-term focus?

Yes. A single clear agreement—consistently honored—compounds into lasting transformation.

4. How do standards influence leadership?

Leaders with strong standards model consistency and presence, inspiring others to follow.

5. What’s the difference between priorities and standards?

Priorities shift; standards don’t. Standards are internal agreements about who you are regardless of circumstances.

6. How do I know if my attention is misaligned?

If you’re always busy but rarely fulfilled, or if relationships feel transactional, your attention is likely misaligned with your standards.

 

Presence, Standards, and the Life You’re Building

When focus becomes a standard, life transforms. You stop chasing distractions and start building a self rooted in presence, integrity, and meaning.

Another year will pass either way—scattered across urgencies or compounded into significance. The choice is yours.

Jen Karofsky | Thought Partner & Coach for Visionary Leaders & Significance Seekers

 Jen Karofsky collaborates with leaders who are ready to disrupt the status quo and craft a life of legacy, deep connection, and purposeful impact. Through intentional coaching and bold thought partnership, Jen helps you align your work, your values, and your vision to create transformational change in your world.

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The Gift of Nothingness

The Gift of Nothingness

by | Sep 12, 2025 | Identity Shifts, Inspiration, Practice Leadership

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Why Successful Leaders Mistake Nothingness for Failure (and How to Reframe It as Growth)

High achievers are rewarded for being “on.” Quick answers. Big vision. A track record of execution that proves they can deliver again and again. Over time, producing on demand doesn’t just become a skill—it becomes an identity.

Which is why the blank page feels so brutal.

When the spark doesn’t come, when the ideas stall, when momentum slows, many leaders interpret it as a personal breakdown:

I’ve lost my edge. What if nothing else comes? Maybe I’ve peaked.

But here’s the truth: the problem isn’t the nothingness. The problem is how it’s interpreted.

Nothingness isn’t absence. It isn’t collapse. It’s a gift.

Two weeks ago, I wrote about aliveness as strategy—the fire that jolts us awake, pulls us back into the arena, and transforms what we create into something significant. But aliveness isn’t the whole story.

Because just as aliveness ignites, nothingness dissolves. It clears the ground so the old scaffolding can fall away.

Both are profound. Both are required when you’re doing meaningful work.

The Paradox of High Achievement

My clients want freedom, autonomy, and agency. They imagine space opening up in their lives and leadership. And yet—these are people with powerful doing muscles. They are most comfortable in motion.

So when space actually arrives, it often doesn’t feel like freedom. It feels like danger. A stalled project. A season of silence. And instead of seeing this as the opening they longed for, they mistake it for something being wrong.

This is the paradox of success: the very system that rewarded relentless producing also conditions you to fear the pause.

Practices for Meeting Nothingness

Here’s the invitation: treat nothingness as arrival, not absence. Curiosity, not collapse.

  • Name it. When it shows up, acknowledge it: Ah, this is nothingness.

  • Stay with it. Sit with the page, the pause, the silence—just a little longer than you want to.

     

  • Disrupt the spiral. When the old story surfaces—I’m failing, I’m slipping—don’t chase it. Get up. Move your body. Take a walk, dance, breathe. Let your system reset.

     

From Success to Significance

Significance doesn’t come only from fire and momentum. It comes from leaders who can hold both—the spark of aliveness and the space of nothingness—and trust that each is shaping them for the work only they can do.

The next time nothing comes, remember: this isn’t the end of your edge. It’s the start of your next one.

Jen Karofsky | Thought Partner & Coach for Visionary Leaders & Significance Seekers

 Jen Karofsky collaborates with leaders who are ready to disrupt the status quo and craft a life of legacy, deep connection, and purposeful impact. Through intentional coaching and bold thought partnership, Jen helps you align your work, your values, and your vision to create transformational change in your world.

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Why Successful Leaders Are Secretly Dying Inside (And How to Wake Up)

Why Successful Leaders Are Secretly Dying Inside (And How to Wake Up)

by | Aug 26, 2025 | Identity Shifts, Practice Leadership

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The autopilot that made you successful might be slowly killing your impact.

Here’s how to break free.

Success can be a trap.

Not the obvious kind—where ego inflates and performance drops. The subtle kind. Where you keep winning, keep delivering, keep hitting every metric that matters. But something essential dies in the process.

Aliveness.

And in this moment—when the world feels increasingly mechanical, when algorithms drive decisions, when human connection gets filtered through screens—reclaiming that aliveness isn’t just personal growth. It’s resistance.

When Excellence Becomes the Enemy of Aliveness

I felt it recently in a conversation designed to stretch me. We weren’t chasing clarity or filling time—we were throwing ourselves into the arena: circling, challenging, rewriting what mattered. By the end, my skin tingled. My senses sharpened. My mind was alive on new edges.

That conversation reminded me what most successful leaders have forgotten: aliveness is what separates good work from transformational work.

Too many leaders stop letting themselves feel this electric edge. Not because they’re lazy or incompetent. Because they’re good. They’ve mastered systems. Built reputations. Proven they can win the game.

But what once felt alive becomes predictable. Excellence replaces discovery. Optimization replaces creation. The safety of competence starts to suffocate the very spark that created their success.

The Hidden Cost of Autopilot Leadership

When leaders lose aliveness, it’s not just their spark that dims:

Organizations stagnate as innovation gets replaced by iteration. Industries stall when the people with the biggest platforms play it safe. The world loses out on breakthroughs it desperately needs—because the leaders capable of creating them have chosen comfort over growth.

The most dangerous comfort zone isn’t failure. It’s success without aliveness.

Aliveness as Competitive Advantage

Aliveness isn’t feel-good philosophy. It’s strategic necessity.

When you’re lit up by what you’re creating, you see connections faster. You take bigger risks. You collaborate more deeply. The work that emerges doesn’t just polish existing ideas—it shifts entire conversations, creates new categories, moves industries forward.

Feeling this good isn’t indulgence. It’s edge.

Finding Your Arena

Aliveness lives in the arenas that demand your whole system—where you can’t hide behind what you’ve already mastered. Where you’re forced to stretch into what’s next.

Leaders resist this because staying proven feels safer. But here’s the paradox: the real risk isn’t stepping into the arena. The real risk is staying out of it while someone else does the work you were meant to do.

Your biggest visions don’t land in you by accident. They arrive to be lived.

The Choice Every Leader Faces

You can keep optimizing the machine you’ve built. Keep delivering predictable excellence. Keep winning the game you’ve already mastered.

Or you can find the arena that wakes you up. The one that makes your pulse quicken. The one that demands everything you have and gives back even more.

Because in that arena, you don’t just succeed. You create significance.

And significance—not just success—is what the world is waiting for.

Ready to step back into the arena? Start by identifying the conversation, project, or challenge that makes you slightly nervous. That’s where your aliveness is hiding. And when you’re ready to move beyond success into significance, join The Significance Project—where leaders gather to do work that matters.

Jen Karofsky | Thought Partner & Coach for Visionary Leaders & Significance Seekers

 Jen Karofsky collaborates with leaders who are ready to disrupt the status quo and craft a life of legacy, deep connection, and purposeful impact. Through intentional coaching and bold thought partnership, Jen helps you align your work, your values, and your vision to create transformational change in your world.

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The Burden and the Gift of Being Skilled

The Burden and the Gift of Being Skilled

by | Jul 31, 2025 | Identity Shifts, Inspiration, Isolation

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When Being Good at Something Becomes a Role You Didn’t Mean to Keep

There’s a particular weight that comes with being highly skilled.

Not just capable—but trusted, leaned on, counted on.
 You do something well—maybe better than anyone else in the room—and over time, it becomes expected. Natural. Automatic.

You show up, and without even offering, you’re tapped.

At first, it feels like power.
 It feels like usefulness, purpose, identity.

But eventually, something shifts.

The Quiet Rise of Frustration

You start to feel it—quiet at first. A low, steady frustration.

It stirs when you walk into familiar spaces and sense the unspoken expectation:
 You’ll lead.
 You’ll guide.
 You’ll hold the tension.
 You’ll do what you always do so well.

At work, maybe it’s when you join a team offsite and someone says, “Can you just kick us off?”
 Not because you offered—but because that’s what you’ve always done.

Or as a founder, when your team hits a wall and—even though you’re no longer in the weeds—everyone looks to you to vision your way through it. They want direction, clarity, perspective. And you have it. But you’re tired. You were hoping this time, someone else might step up.

Or in your family, when the emotional temperature shifts and all eyes instinctively turn to you to mediate, translate, make it better.

You do it, of course. You always have.
 But something in you tightens.
 Because this time, it doesn’t feel like contribution. 
 It feels like performance.

When Excellence Becomes Exhaustion

Not because the skill disappeared. But because it’s being overused.
 Because it’s become reflex, not alignment.

Most people don’t name this moment clearly.
 They chalk it up to stress or being overextended. But underneath, there’s often something deeper:
 a signal that your identity is shifting.
 That the way you’ve always shown up isn’t quite right anymore.
 That the skill you’ve been praised for—the one that’s built your success—may now be the very thing keeping you from your next level of significance.

That quiet frustration, the sudden resistance to showing up in certain rooms, the impulse to withdraw or overfunction—these are not failures of character.
 They are thresholds.

The Threshold Between Success and Significance

You don’t need to stop being excellent. But you do need to pause long enough to ask:
 Where am I using this skill out of habit, not alignment?
 Where am I unconsciously reinforcing an identity I’ve already outgrown?

When you’re in a season of evolution, these moments matter.

Because significance doesn’t emerge from reflex.
 It emerges from discernment. From courage. From choosing on purpose.

The real discipline isn’t in continuing to offer your gifts.
 It’s in knowing when to not.
 When to lead, and when to let the silence hold.
 When to allow yourself to just be in the room—not function in it.

Becoming More of Who You Are Now

This is the edge where I meet many of my clients.
 They’re not looking to hustle harder or refine the performance.
 They’re looking to reclaim their energy, their clarity, and their identity.

They want to matter, not just succeed.

And that requires more than new strategy.
 It requires new agreements with self.
 It requires a willingness to listen to the signals and step into something more honest, more vital, more aligned.

You’re not less of who you were.
 You’re just becoming more of who you are now.

And that’s where significance begins.


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Jen Karofsky | Thought Partner & Coach for Visionary Leaders & Significance Seekers

 Jen Karofsky collaborates with leaders who are ready to disrupt the status quo and craft a life of legacy, deep connection, and purposeful impact. Through intentional coaching and bold thought partnership, Jen helps you align your work, your values, and your vision to create transformational change in your world.

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A Reflection on the Tension Between Greatness and Safety

A Reflection on the Tension Between Greatness and Safety

by | Jul 16, 2025 | Identity Shifts, Uncategorized

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“A new world calls across the ocean. A new world calls across the sky. A new world whispers in the shadows. Time to fly. Time to fly.”

—from Songs for a New World

A few weeks ago, I watched my niece perform in Songs for a New World. She’s something special—watching her in her full expression always moves me.

But this show in particular really got me. The music, the stories, the emotional honesty—it pulled me right in.

And for a moment, it felt like I was holding not just the meaning of the show… but maybe even the meaning of life.

(I know, I know—heavy, right? Stay with me.)

Because sometimes, something cracks you open when you least expect it and shows you what’s really at stake. And if you’ve ever had that kind of moment—where something small hits surprisingly deep—you know what I mean.

Songs for a New World isn’t a traditional musical. It’s a series of vignettes—snapshots of people at crossroads.

Moments of decision. Moments when something breaks through. Moments when the call to step into something unknown becomes impossible to ignore.

When the opening lines rang through the theater—

“A new world calls… A new world whispers… Time to fly.”

—I didn’t just hear the lyrics. I felt the invitation.

Some significance seekers recognize that invitation immediately. We sense it in our bodies—a tension, a restlessness, a quiet ache that tells the truth before we’ve found the words.

Others are just beginning to notice it. A question that won’t leave. A subtle dissonance. A flicker of possibility.

Yet—it’s there, even in the form of the whisper. And once you’ve heard it, you can’t un-hear it.

That’s what this show captured with haunting clarity:

Life offers thresholds.

If you’re reading this, there’s a good chance you’re standing at one now. Being invited. Being called.

Do not ignore it.

The cost of not listening isn’t just a missed opportunity—it’s the slow fade of what makes you feel most alive. It’s the quiet resignation that settles in when we choose safety over significance, again and again.

You don’t have to blow up all that you’ve built, but it is the time to listen.

This is the work of the significance-seeker—and it doesn’t begin with a plan. It begins with listening.

If you’re hearing the whisper and ready to explore what it might mean for your life, let’s talk. You can book a conversation with me [here].

What threshold are you standing at today?

I’d love to hear about the whispers you’re hearing—the invitations that won’t leave you alone. Share in the comments below.

Jen Karofsky | Thought Partner & Coach for Visionary Leaders & Significance Seekers

 Jen Karofsky collaborates with leaders who are ready to disrupt the status quo and craft a life of legacy, deep connection, and purposeful impact. Through intentional coaching and bold thought partnership, Jen helps you align your work, your values, and your vision to create transformational change in your world.

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